My dad used to own a small business and worked a lot of hours so he wasn't able to attend many functions, but when he did show up it meant so much that it really burned a moment in my memory bank. Now that I am a father I make it a point to be there for as much as I can (which is just about everything) that it got me wondering if in the grand scheme of things will it get taken for granted? The parenting gurus talk about making every moment count but is "love" and "attention" really the same thin…